TEN TIPS ON HOW TO
ELIMINATE PREMATURE EJACULATION
what can I do to last longer?
Ten tips on how to eliminate premature ejaculations are
given below. The easiest (and cheapest) things first ..
- The stop
and start technique
- The breathing
- The squeeze
- Wear a condom
- Pelvic muscle
- Herbal treatments
restraint and penis ring
these tips in more details...
and start technique
This technique simply means to bring yourself to (near) the point
of no return, and stopping all stimulation before it's too late.
For some men, this includes removal of the penis from the vagina,
although for others this may not be necessary.
After the urgent feeling to ejaculate subsides, usually after 30
seconds, then thrusting and intercourse can be resumed. This stop
and start technique can be repeated several times.
Communication is the key here, guys. Let your partner know that
you are getting close to orgasm and to slow down or temporarily
In addition to intercourse, the stop and start technique can also
be practiced with your hand, with or without lubricant.
Believe it or not, breathing deeply and relaxing your body
during intercourse can help! This works best for premature ejaculation
that is caused by anxiety or tension.
Because of its relaxing effect, some men report that drinking one
(just one ,guys) glass of red wine before lovemaking can help.
For others, distracting oneself by thinking about other things like
the office or football can also help to prevent premature ejaculation.
Just remember not to think out loud!
The squeeze technique
This technique involves gently squeezing the base or end
of the penile shaft and stopping sexual stimulation until the urge
to ejaculate passes. The squeezing can be done by either the man
or his partner, and can be repeated until ejaculation is desired.
Wear a condom
One of the most overlooked simple cures of premature ejaculation
is to wear a condom. Besides being a good practice against sexually
transmitted diseases and as a contraceptive, a condom can help reduce
the sensation and thus prolong sex.
Masturbating first a couple of hours before making love
can result in the increased ability to last longer. Unfortunately,
this often reduces the man's desire for sex.
Different sexual positions
Some men reach orgasm and ejaculate faster in the traditional missionary
position (man on top). These men may last longer when their partner
is on top. Remember, however, that sexual position preference varies
Changing positions every so often can also help, perhaps by giving
the man brief pauses during lovemaking every now and then.
Desensitizing cream works by lessening the sensation felt by men
during intercourse. Although it lengthens staying power for many
men, it comes with a price: most of these men said that the cream
also makes sex less pleasurable.
Be sure to tell your partner that you are using desensitizing cream.
Unfortunately, the dulling effect can also be transferred and felt
by the woman, making it longer for her to reach orgasm (which may
be one of the reasons a man feels he's not lasting long enough in
the first place!).
Pelvic muscle exercise
Would you believe that an exercise usually reserved for incontinent
women can help a man prevent premature ejaculation?
In a woman, pregnancy and childbirth are the main cause of the weakening
of the pelvic floor muscle. This usually leads to female incontinence.
The good news is that a simple
pelvic muscle exercise (also called Kegel exercise) can help.
The same pelvic muscle is also involved in the ejaculation process
(if you must know, the contraction of the pelvic muscle forces the
seminal or ejaculate fluid from the prostate gland). This means
that for a man, the same pelvic muscle exercise can help gain control
over his premature ejaculation.
The pelvic muscle exercise is simple: "flex" the pelvic
muscle as if you are holding back from or stopping urination. Hold
the muscle for about three to five seconds, relax for about three
seconds, and repeat. With practice, you should be able to work your
way up to hold your pelvic muscle for ten seconds and do as many
as one hundred contractions per day.
Remember, you can do this discreet exercise at almost anytime and
in any place.
There are many herbs for men's sexual health available
in the market today. Some of these, such as yohimbe and maca extracts,
are basically stimulants and may have unwanted side effects, especially
for older men.
A very promising herb is purified Tribulus terrestris extract,
available under the brand name Libilov. Taken regularly, Tribulus
has been proven by many scientific medical studies to help men overcome
premature ejaculation without side effects. Moreover, the herb helps
boost sex drive, increases stamina and control, and even improves
sensation. Visit Libilov
for more information.
Gently restraining the testicles from moving during intercourse
can help some men from ejaculating prematurely. Although some found
it uncomfortable or too much hassle, testicular restraint is generally
safe. It can be purchased discreetly through erotic mail-order companies.
Taking cues from the squeeze technique and a vacuum device for impotence,
an erotic device called a penis ring or band works to prevent premature
ejaculation in some (adventurous) men. Here, a stretchy rubber ring
on the base of the penis does the squeezing. Some men, however,
feel slight discomfort during intercourse when wearing this ring.
Premature ejaculation can be treated
The tips above have been reported to help about 95% of men to prolong
their lovemaking. Remember to be sure to contact your health provider
if you feel that you have a severe premature ejaculation problem.